May is here, and it is a key month for final touches. Whether your wedding is around the corner or you are just now feeling the pressure, this monthly guide is your go-to resource for staying calm, confident, and on schedule. This post breaks down exactly what you should focus on this month, including practical tasks, budget wins, and ways to support your partner. From writing your vows to checking off the little things like socks, this is real-world wedding planning for grooms who want to stay ahead.
1-Month Tip: Finalize Your Vows and Ceremony Plans
If your wedding is imminent, now is the time to complete your vows and confirm all ceremony details. Collaborate with your officiant to review the ceremony structure, readings, and any personalized elements. Practicing your vows aloud can help ease nerves and ensure a heartfelt delivery.
Resources:
How to Write Your Own Wedding Vows – Brides
Budget Tip: Buy a Suit Off the Rack and Tailor It
You do not have to spend thousands to look like a million bucks. A well-fitted off-the-rack suit paired with a good tailor can save you hundreds. Alterations usually cost less than $150 and can turn a basic suit into a custom look. Learn more from The Modest Man’s guide to suit tailoring. This is one of the easiest budget wedding tips for men that still makes a big impact.
Resources:
How to Tailor a Suit Jacket – The Modest Man
Relationship Tip: Plan the Honeymoon as a Team
The wedding is one day, but your honeymoon is your first real escape together. Sit down with your partner to talk through the trip. Go over budget, expectations, and energy levels. Are you both on the same page about relaxing versus adventure? Use this honeymoon planning checklist from The Knot to guide the conversation. Strong communication now leads to fewer letdowns later.
Resources:
How to Plan Your Honeymoon – The Knot
Featured Tool: Use Zola’s Wedding Checklist App
One of the easiest ways to stay organized is with Zola’s free wedding checklist app. It customizes your to-dos based on your date and walks you through each task one step at a time. You can sync your guest list, manage RSVPs, and track vendor payments. This app simplifies wedding planning for grooms who want fewer tabs open and more clarity.
Resources:
Zola Wedding Planning App
Quick Win: Lay Out Your Wedding Outfit This Week
Small things can turn into big problems on the wedding day. Make time this week to lay out your full outfit—suit, socks, shoes, belt, tie, and even cologne. Check that everything fits and nothing is missing. This takes 10 minutes but eliminates stress on the big day. Want a checklist? Use our groom’s day-of wedding prep guide.
Resources:
The Ultimate Day-of Wedding Checklist – Brides
Frequently Asked Questions
What should grooms be doing one month before the wedding?
Grooms should finalize vows, confirm ceremony details, check in with vendors, and prepare their outfit. This is the time to focus on the details that create a smooth wedding day.
How can grooms save money on their wedding look?
Instead of going custom, buy a good suit off the rack and get it tailored. It saves money and still looks sharp.
What is a quick task with a big payoff before the wedding?
Check your outfit early. Make sure you have everything, including socks, a belt, and shoes. This simple step prevents last-minute stress.
